After trying many other dating sites, me and my now wife Valentina both came across luckylovers.net nearly about at the same time and signed up. She contacted me first just to say hello and asked something. Oh, those women, sometimes I am asking myself - did she know that we would meet up and instantly fall in love??? She liked my picture and did not pay any attention to those long sentences I put in my profile, she was so direct as somebody was whispering into her ear – contact him, do yourself a favor. LOL. Her complete ignoring those wise (I thought like that then) words turned me off from the very beginning, but she was so cute when explaining why she asked something it had been already stated in profile and her English was so poor and funny at that time that I decided to continue chatting. Later when I read her letters and read thoroughly through her profile I was really impressed with her. We exchange our phone numbers in a week of writing as Valya could not type near as fast as I can and the telephone was much more comfortable for both of us.
I think we hit it off right away on the phone and all the next months were just cautions we use to use all the time. After an hour of speaking with her I felt I could drive down and see her that evening. But she was so far away and that was so sad.
We talked for about four months or so before we ever met, we met each other mostly in emails and instant messages, as well as a little on the phone. Her English was improving rapidly; I was even ashamed I still can not learn just a bit of Russian.
The first time we met was in late November in Kiev (Valya is from Russia, but it was easier for us to meet in Ukraine) and it was raining heavily. I could come only for three days but we wanted to try it. The wind was awful and I was even afraid she would not come. I am from Germany but this time I was flying from the USA. So a plane landed and I saw her at the gate. She was standing there, my little beautiful Russian princess, wet and scared. She was trembling as she wanted to look wonderfully and dressed too out-of-weather. At that moment I knew I want to hug her and warm her and never, never let her go.
We both stayed in the hotels (she arrived a bit earlier) so we decided to go to the hotel to change her dress and to dine out. We were speaking from nine till 4 a.m. and excused went to our rooms. I wanted her really much but she was so tender and a bit confused that I did not want to rush. We spent a great day together and a very eventful night after and once the evening was over and things where starting to come to an end, I felt a deep sadness. The next day was our last day together, but I knew it was not the least. After we went sightseeing and shopping a bit we sat out on the benches in the park and were just holding each other silently. And all hours we spent together were in my mind and did not want to go anywhere and to hold this thirty-years-old woman looking like a little girl and that would be the happiness, complete happiness. We remembered our first kiss, actually there was so much magic and chemistry in that first kiss that just three months later we got married. I had a child from my previous marriage and he liked his Russian mom almost from the very beginning. It has passed almost three months after we married and moved in but I still can not believe my happiness. We are so strongly in love and could not be happier. Pet and Valya, Germany.
Aug 25, 2009
my beautiful russian wife
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