If you are looking just for a buddy to ran with, it is one thing, but if you want to share you life with someone, then you are looking for a personality type as well. You are looking for a kind, caring, generous, considerate, and loving person. These qualities are way more significant than sharing a hobby.
A great place to see a person’s true personality is to watch them while they do something they are passionate about. You will see them at their most joyous, their most generous, and their most energetic. You will also see them when they are the most open to possibilities – and that is where you come in. If you can make that introduction while they are at a “happy place” in their life – the pool, the golf course, the bowling alley – they may be more open to the possibility of a relationship.
So, the best place to find the person you’re looking for is to find them when and where they are happy. And, if that place is where you are happy, too, the sky will be your limit.
